When in a relationship, the most fundamental principle that will keep it going aside from love is trust. Trust is paramount in all circles of life and without it, not much would function. I have always said that, if you ever have to play detective in your relationship, then it’s time to move on. You can never function without it, what you would be having would be a lie and if it comes down to that, hurt is the result.
In order to trust someone, I think it has to start with you, you have to be a trustworthy person, not just in the essence of the word but in your actions as well. Trust can be broken sometimes and when this happens, it is usually really hard to trust the person ever again. Whatever they do from thence, you will always put a question mark to it. Your mind does not ever really let go of that let down and anything else done after that, there is always that doubt that will always creep in.
Personally, as far as trust is concerned, there are no second chances. You can’t give a second chance to someone who has outrightly cheated on you and he or she has betrayed that trust, you will never know peace with this person from then on. So, it is really wise and advisable to move on, you don’t want to be stuck with someone who is probably going to hurt you again. There are very many ways to find out whether someone is trustworthy or not. Personally I prefer phones. Phones can tell a lot about someone’s behavior.
The untrustworthy people normally have codes on their phones that their significant others have no access to. When taking calls, they have to excuse themselves from your presence. Or you always find it off whenever you are together, this is the basic rule to a relationship, that your phone is no longer a private issue of your own. You can go through stuff on my phone and I can go through yours without ever feeling insecure of what is in there. You need to be in a relationship with a person, that if a text comes through, he or she will tell you to read the text out loud for them if they are busy with something else.
So, make sure that you are in a comfortable relationship that doesn’t have to hurt every time because of infidelity or lies. All you have to do is walk away, you can’t be with a person who is always making you feel insecure about yourself. Trust should be maintained in the relationship at all times and it should start with you. Recent study sows that men are more likely to cheat so, to all the men out there, respect your woman and you don’t have to cheat on her. Treat her right and make her feel like the only one in the world, or at least your world.